You should see the article I just wrote(I think you did) about Tichina Arnold. guys have been going ballistic saying, what if we flip the question around and ask what "Can men do for us" and wondering if it makes sense. One guy said I am "not the spokesperson for males/females because I told him Black women typically still only choose to date men(black men) who rarely choose them as mates and that I think both genders need help to an extent. He said I was being negative and yada yada and I can't use my opinion as a judgement. Of course I don't feel this way about my own black man, but when I speak the truth of what I observe on social media, I'm a "man hater" and Black women have called me this too.

Yeah, it's real out here. smh.

Sidebar: some comments by men were actually welcome. But not all.