Wow! Thank you for sharing your experience! I did an article a while back about men who have female "friends" and how I am mature enough to not let that get in the way. In fact, it is possible to love more than one person--perhaps in a different sort of way. There is a deep sibling kind of love, friendship love, and then romantic. If you have romantic feelings for a friend , then inviting another woman to be your wife is just not wise. Why not marry the friend is she is just so special? That seems fair.

Also, if TJ and Amy did find a good, pure connection outside of lust(I doubt it), then cool-- they need to start divorcing before breaking vows and being unfaithful. In my humble opinion, I think people are not finding true love. It is Lust incarnate and they want something different at the expense of someone's heart.