This part right here is super important, because a lot of times we hear that “ Black women are loud and masculine” but most of us were not born in safe, quiet clean comforting neighborhoods, like most white women.

Thankfully, I didn’t have it too bad, and was raised by my father mostly but other Black girls I went to school with felt that “ beating up other girls in front of boys and cursing” was attractive.

The gag is, those behaviors are obscene and not attractive.