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They Are Just Trying to Be Noticed — The Toxic Way

A response to the question: “Why do Black women act like this?”

If I Ain't Readin'
6 min readOct 9, 2022

This article is written for a friend so that we can all have some kind of understanding about the women in our community. I am happy to answer his question.

A Medium writer and friend told me the other day that he is dealing with a loud, toxic Black woman. She is loud, crazy, and has been lying on him. He is not dating her; they are just living in the same rental property temporarily.

“Why do you think some Black chicks act like this?” He asks me.

Before I explain my answer, I want you to know that this writer is not only an excellent writer, but he does not take any bull, and he LOVES Black women. I applaud him for asking me this question. We need clear answers as to why some Black women behave in this way.

If you have not read my very encouraging article for Black women, please read it and share it with your friends and family.

I am no psychologist, so my answer will be based on my experience and a little bit of Googling.

Possible reason #1: No clear understanding of womanhood

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If I Ain't Readin'
If I Ain't Readin'

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Erica is an essayist and poet who enjoys reading, creating content, and helping others find their purpose too. Above all, she loves to read🖤

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