The way I see it, you are normal! Living what you love is a part of being human. Unfortunately, as soon as I hit 41 that’s when problems started: I am now a type 2 diabetic, high blood pressure and I don’t have kids. I’m happily married and we are both creatives. I admit I had just started liking desserts and cakes right before diagnosis 🙁but I always preferred fruit. Now I have to cut carbs and sugars= not a life😬