Thank you for sharing your experience!
Unfortunately, you encountered the effect of the cause of the Divestment movement, or the root of the symptoms. Since Ignorant Black men could not just date their preference in silence like a normal man, they’ve unwittingly caused the loyal Black woman to ignorantly announce that other men( white men) are better.
This creates bloat headed white men to think EVERY Black woman want them and that is NOT true. First, when Black women mind their own business, we are called angry and antisocial. Now that Black women are showing basic manners(we’ve had all along) , they think the Black women want them.
Those same Black men should have been worried about their “ better” women instead of taking jabs at Black women. Now you have these nonblack men thinking someone wants them🙄