Thank you for responding with your insights! I agree with most of what you’ve said but as someone who has been flirted on by married men back in the day, it disgusted me but flattered me, boosted my esteem some.

If a side piece feel confident becoming a part of a triangle it screams self loathing to me because she don’t have to be with someone who breaks vows. It’s just my opinion though. Appreciate the read!