Thank you for reading! Yes, this is food for thought, because I imagine none of us are born with terribly low self esteem. We are born with certain temperaments and personalities that could play a role to a degree, but mostly it's our environment. Whether we watched someone belittle our mom, or we were belittled in school and then we internalized it.

We then changed our hair color, eye color, etc. Look at Tiny, T.I's wife. Reportedly he likes blue eyed women, so eventually she got her eyes changed to blue permanently-- a dangerous procedure I might add.

I have a feeling that if he would have said he loved chocolate/dark eyes the most, she would not have had that surgery.

Great points you have here.