Moon,

Me too! I used to wear certain scents(Gucci or Pear Glaze by Victoria’s Secret) or I would happily help the popular guys with homework and such. It wasn’t until after I graduated high school , that I saw letters in my yearbook from guys who wish they’d given me a chance. I guess I was TOO quiet lol!

I do see the opposite happening with women these days: the softer, more “feminine” women get more play. The violent ones get clicks and views but they are considered masculine.