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What the pandemic has made me realize after 3 years
I want to start off by offering my sincere apologies in advance for how this article may sound to those who actually lost someone to the coronavirus. It was a trying time for my family as well. However, for someone like me who has introversion, I do see how three years can change how I appreciate memories, health, and comfort.
Well folks, it’s been three years. Three short, fast years. In March of 2020 when my boss began greeting us with Wakandan, hugless gestures, I knew things have changed. Those I used to fist bump, didn’t get one from me — just an awkward stare as I crossed my arms over my chest.
The second year, people talked of how they missed hugs. My dear uncle said, “I’ve always social distanced myself from people so I’m cool.”
His sign is Cancer, just like me, so he didn’t need to explain. Hugs are reserved for those extremely close to us. It’s a treat when a shy/introverted person allows you in their space and allows that hug. I’m kind of weird though — I love hugs and I enjoy giving them, so there’s that. Thank you Covid for damaging the one un-introverted thing I love doing!
Disclaimer: Please don’t get offended. All of us aren’t like this and I know there are nuances! I just dance between the spectrums…
