Interesting article. Most American men complain about women's spending habits, but I do hear it online on social media from black men more. I am married to a thoughtful black man and even he sees and understands there is a difference between Gold Diggers and women who deserve to be provided for and cared for.

I don't believe in bashing people and sometimes our perception is so skewed that it appears as bashing, but I have to say it: Most men who complain about women shopping or "digging for gold" do not have the gold. Period. In my opinion a relationship is built on love and purpose.

Also, I definitely agree with you 100% that the men who are complaining the most, did not choose their partners wisely. They want the baddie and when she behaves badly, he blames all women who look like her. Figures.