I think Black women, just like Black men, need to stop making nonblacks their saviors. I've never praised Black women for finding white men. I've congratulated them on having the Right man. Big difference.

Again, Black women typically only have eyes for their Black Men/Kings, and Black men know this. Which is why when we suffer, they can wallow in arrogance because for Black women, Black will always be the top first choice. Black men do not know how it feels to be considered as just a preference or an afterthought as a collective.

Food for thought.