I say this all the time! If I were a white woman dating a self hating Black man I would be very upset that he spends his days “ flaunting me” to Black women. As if Black womens emotional response is the end all be all to his world.

To the Becky’s and Beckishas of the world: they love you because they hate us. They’re not in love with you.

A man in love focuses on his own woman. Period.