I am so GLAD you wrote this. Black men are treated like walking dildos and the truly sad fact is— they know it! So this could mean several things:

1) Black men’s self esteem and self worth is so low , that they think their only claim to glory are their genitals.

2) Black men themselves see white women as an “ upgrade” from Black women , therefore they don’t mind being degraded by white women.

3) They don’t see women as women, but actually see white and other non Black women as fetishes or “ exotic”—similar to how white women treat them— yikes!

The list could go on. Anyone male or female who puts up with this needs to seek help and guidance— I mean that sincerely with no animosity and no joking.