I am married to a Black man. However, if I had daughters I would tell them to not date Black men exclusively. If they cherish family and romance, then Black men may not be the route to go. My husband, thankfully, is a good man. I'm blessed. But overall, Black women need to take the truth as it is: Most black men have a deep seated hatred for black women and it is larger than their lust for white women. You are doing the right thing being open to dating out. Don't let anyone tell you different.