I agree! Certainly the vitriol should be turned to the husband who made the vows to you, however I know someone personally who got pregnant by a married man and he left her and is still with his wife. The wife represents familiarity… he may not even love his wife but he certainly keeps women in rotation. Many mistresses forget this. The man you are getting is not quality if he breaks vows. Even when I was single, I was turned off by married men catcalling me. To me it’s just.. eww! You humping your wife , and spending time with your fam then you try going after me? No thanks. I don’t share. None of that crap.