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How Do You Know If You Have a Good Man?
The answer may surprise you
First of all, in today’s toxic climate, is it even possible to find a good man, ladies?
I use the term “find” loosely because I still believe it is the man who pursues the woman. Ladies, if you are not about that life and prefer being the huntress, that is okay too. We are in the 21st century, do you.
I realize lately though, that the horror stories about dating apps, and the highly toxic male comments on sites like Reddit, are causing women to open their eyes and declare, “We don’t need that sh#!t in our lives!”
Yes, even as a happily married woman over here I can still observe and feel utter despair for my nieces and other ladies in my family who will be entering the dating scene soon. I truly feel for them because the male vipers in this world just want sex and then they are done with you.
Or worse — these men are hurting and killing women. Toxic sadistic men who only deserve to be called male demons.
So how can one even know if their man is “the one”
You want the truth?
Answer: You’ll never know.
Sorry if that is not the answer you were looking for, but in any early relationship you can see red flags and file them away for…
