Hi KL! This is Erica J( changed my Medium platform).

I truly enjoyed your words, especially concluding with MLK’s powerful words. It’s funny how even on a Black social media app that I use, Black men use fear tactics or show stats to prove that white or other nonBlack men don’t have an interest in Black women, but I told them that it could be because Black or multiracial Black women constantly prefer Black men. Perhaps because of shared experiences.

Me on the other hand, I’ve dated white men before and was always flirted on by Asian men.

I am happily married to a Black man now of course, but it is interesting how some women don’t open their dating options. I think it’s really sweet that your bf is willing to learn your heritage though ♥️