Hi Gareth,
You do make a valid point, and No one should “ shift” their personalities just to have a mate.

This is what women go through too: needing to be pretty enough, tall/short enough, dumb/smart enough, fertile and perfect.

None seems to be the perfect balance though.

I am in a loving marriage so I’m no longer privy to all that single people are going through today, only some things from what I observe.

I am just thankful that my husband loves me no matter what and I love him no matter what. Yes, all relationships evolve and have ups and downs. We’re human. Men and women need to be themselves. Continue to be what God want us to be.

Thanks for reading, and all the best to you!