Exactly! If the marriage is so horrible, so critical for the spouse, they should consider moving in with the non critical “happy” mistress, and get a divorce in the works. It will be difficult, but it’s better than being with the spouse they don’t like.

Cheaters/dogs/etc. should not be playing games when it comes to matters of the heart and home. If you don’t like your spouse ,and “Missy Poo” on the job is more your speed (for now), then GO.