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Are Women Going After Men Who Don’t Want Them?

This “expert” on social media says so and this is what I have to say to that

If I Ain't Readin'
4 min readAug 4, 2022
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In my July article, I warned women to stop listening to these toxic male podcasters, and for good reason.

Now, a podcaster is saying women believe they deserve love from the type of man she wants but the type of man she wants does not want her. Is this true for all women? Is it only women who pick someone out of their league and get butt hurt in the end?

Let’s find out.

It’s the triggering words for me

The narcissistic podcaster begins by saying,

“Everyone woman believes she deserves love.”

That sentence right there was not only a red flag, but for women, it could be triggering. It’s a hurtful sentence because he said it smugly, as if women do not deserve to be loved.

So, my next question would be: If we do not deserve love, what is it we that we deserve?

I bet we all know the answer to that one.

This smug podcaster is probably one of those men who was hurt by a woman in his past, or not taught the ins and outs of a real relationship that is built to last.

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If I Ain't Readin'
If I Ain't Readin'

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Erica is an essayist and poet who enjoys reading, creating content, and helping others find their purpose too. Above all, she loves to read🖤

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