Agreed! I actually see where you and Moon are coming from. On one hand , as I mentioned on this article, the man is the one breaking the vows. He is not a good, quality man if he does this.
At the same time I laugh when people talk about sisterhood. What sisterhood? We turn into “feral cats” when a “good, married eligible” man whisper sweet nothings in our ears. As full grown, moral women we have to respect ourselves at the end of the day. Being someone’s side piece and not the main dish is just eww!
I don’t male worship either, which is why I never saw dating married men as a good thing. These roosters can break vows because they know women “ don’t care about the family unit” the mistress just wants her climaxes and gifts too- screw the wife.
I don’t live in a dreamworld where women respect themselves. If the wife want to keep sleeping with a dirty possibly disease ridden dog then yea, the wife is more stupid than the back door side chic.