Actually, TJ admitted in a tweet that he wanted his wife to let him go. He said she was actually too good to him and a wonderful wife and mother. He said he "intentionally did crazy things to upset her so he can just move on" with different women- you can look it up. Let's stop giving the greenlight to cheating. If someone is that unhappy in their marriage, they can just not come home anymore and it doesn't require sleeping around and bringing back possible diseases to the wife.